Are you not contradicting yourself here?
Players stop play without the whistle being blown all the time, I thought the problem was that it stops play too often? If the players never stopped play without a whistle, we wouldn't be having this discussion.
usually they expect the other team to play it out, then get right up as if nothings ever happened. I hate that, the player lying down can get up while the other team is attacking.
I want players to stop exploiting this fair play thing, and by that i guess it should be upto the ref to stop play. If the ref doesn't, then play on.
edit: I want the players to play football, not act around making fools out of themselves and exploiting everything they can to get a break, or ruin the other sides chance for a counter attack.