James Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Now I've never been much of a catch for women I'll be the first to admit. However the last month or so has been outrageously stupid. Got rejected by a girl I had liked for some time on Valentines Day, then being a typical bloke, I went out and got tanked, and ended up pulling this girl. Over the next few days, realised I had absolutely nothing in common with this girl so ditched her, at which point I discovered she was actually mental and had become obsessed with me, sending me endless texts etc. At which point I was feeling down and wishing anyone that wasn't a weirdo would like me. Anyhow some friends decided to help me out with my plight, and introduced me to this lovely nurse, and we have a date on Tues. This is where it gets complicated. A completely different set of friends introduced me to another girl and out of the blue she just asked me out. Now I'm not sure what to do. I'm not the two-timing type, but I wish I could date both to test the water. Do people think I could get away with dating both if I don't sleep with them? Now for the ridicule... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Heneage Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 I hardly know you, so don't know of your past on here but my advice. Chill out be continental. You are just dating 2 girls, nothing exclusive, I've been out with girls who were dating 2 or 3 people and I've done the same myself, in fact the last girl I dated sounds a lot like your crazy woman, Kaizero can back me up that she was totally fucking mental. But yes James, just relax. Head out somewhere coffee, restaurant whatever and just keep it easy. If you like one more than the other after 2 or 3 dates just say "I'm sorry I don't think its working blah blah Cliche Cliche" Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shak Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Obsessed with James... that's a sobering thought. Honestly though, no problem whatsoever with dating two girls at once like, as long as it's not some long term thing where you're stringing both of them along for ages. Odds are neither of them will like you anyway, so not to worry. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neil Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Well James. I don't know what to say now because Love Guru Nixon has sorted your life out. I'd go for it! Edit: Shak Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 I hardly know you, so don't know of your past on here but my advice. Chill out be continental. You are just dating 2 girls, nothing exclusive, I've been out with girls who were dating 2 or 3 people and I've done the same myself, in fact the last girl I dated sounds a lot like your crazy woman, Kaizero can back me up that she was totally fucking mental. But yes James, just relax. Head out somewhere coffee, restaurant whatever and just keep it easy. If you like one more than the other after 2 or 3 dates just say "I'm sorry I don't think its working blah blah Cliche Cliche" I don't see the problem with that at all James. As Shak said just make sure you don't make things serious with the both of them, as it could get you into a lot of bother. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decky Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Find out which one knows the most about Lost and choose her, if that fails then just ask Andy out. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wullie Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Why not pre-date both first? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Why not pre-date both first? Ah good old Invicta. What a ringpiece. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest firetotheworks Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Nothing wrong with dating more than one girl at a time I think. Unless you're 'official' with one of the lasses then there's no reason that you cant date both to see who you like more. It may get complicated if you end up liking both of them though. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decky Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 I dont think we can proceed without Towelies 2 cents tbh Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Actually I'm going to change my stance on this. James this could be the only time you get laid in the next few decades, so get it while you can off anyone you can. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neil Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 And so on. I dont think we can proceed without Towelies 2 cents tbh Towelie Reference Jackpot! Towelie Reference Jackpot! Towelie Reference Jackpot! Towe.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Thanks guys. Should I be open about the fact that I'm simultaneously dating? Or not. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley17 Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Go out with the first one, report back here. Go out with the second one, report back here. Make a poll. We'll make the decision for you. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Thanks guys. Should I be open about the fact that I'm simultaneously dating? Or not. You really are a crackpot if you think that's a good idea. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley17 Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Thanks guys. Should I be open about the fact that I'm simultaneously dating? Or not. Are you an idiot? Who starts a date with "it's good news for you that you're first tonight, I'm usually pretty bored by the 3rd and 4th ones" Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Someone needs to mention Yorkie and we've got a full house. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 James I want to see photos of each btw. Preferably without either of them licking windows. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Thanks guys. Should I be open about the fact that I'm simultaneously dating? Or not. Are you an idiot? Who starts a date with "it's good news for you that you're first tonight, I'm usually pretty bored by the 3rd and 4th ones" Speed daters. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wullie Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 James I want to see photos of each btw. Preferably without either of them licking windows. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decky Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 James I want to see photos of each btw. Preferably without either of them licking windows. Id settle for a pic of James licking a window btw Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest firetotheworks Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Thanks guys. Should I be open about the fact that I'm simultaneously dating? Or not. Hahaha! How would you bring that up and have it go down well? 'What we having for starters?' 'You, then Ive got her for main, weeeeey!' *cue the scuffled crockery noise* Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 James I want to see photos of each btw. Preferably without either of them licking windows. Id settle for a pic of James licking a window btw Whatever rubs your Buddha I suppose. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neil Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 Now for the ridicule... At least you weren't disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tooj Posted March 21, 2009 Share Posted March 21, 2009 What was it that wooed each of them if you don't mind me asking James? Did you manage to tell them that you sit on the internet and study pictures of Newcastle United training, then judging by the bib colours are then able to fathom out what team will be playing the follow game. If so then my picture quest without the latter would be impossible. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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