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Right then. This is a first for me so bare with me. :rolleyes:

 

I've always been someone who's had a best mate; all the way through school, i've always had one really good mate in-particular, whereas most people just tend to have lots of 'equal' mates, so to speak. Anyhow, my mate George, i've been best mates with him since the start of secondary school, so that's like five years.

 

Just recently, he's been blanking me - completely and utterly. And at the end of Year 11 prom, the last time i met up with him, he barely said a word to me.

 

So naturally, i'm a little down. Aye, it's childish 'having a bezzie' and all that shite, but i think i was a bit concerned and a bit downtrodden within reason, cos he is/was my best mate and i had no idea what it was i'd done to make him so seemingly angry with me.

 

Anyhow, i spoke to his girlfriend tonight - who's naturally his replacement nowadays for every single one of his friends. I mean, the majority of our little circle of mates rarely see George nowadays. Anyhow, i spoke to her and i asked her if she knew what was up with him. And i got the mother of all answers from her. Apparantely, she's always thought that i've liked him as more than a friend, and that he has got the idea that i'm in love with him. Which, obviously, is absolute nonsense. But that's the reason given for why he's been ignoring me.

 

I've considered him the closest thing to a brother, but christ - never anything like that. For one thing i'm totally straight, and for another thing, i've been besotted with one particular lass for the entirety of my secondary school years.

 

Anyhow - just what the hell do i do now? Pretty much tainted the friendship forever, i reckon. I can't exactly text him and say "we need to talk", because that'll freak him out well and truly. I suppose ultimately - have i actually got to ring him up and actually tell my best mate "i'm not in love with you" ... Jesus Christ, fucking scary even thinking about it.

 

Thoroughly shit situation. Need some advice. And before all you wise-asses come out with "sounds like some petty teenage crap"; i'm a teenager - so shut your holes. :D

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Fuck him.

 

Don't knock it till you've tried it, etc?

 

As much as that was a play on things, I do mean it in another context. To fuck with him, you'll get more friends and you'll develop stronger bonds with people that understand you better and the things you do. Be careful though, it could be his woman stirring shit, it's not unheard of, especially at that age.

 

Let him come to you, if anything. Don't pursue him, it's a bizarre situation. He could be just being a cunt about you in front of his missus, it could be anything, but personally, I'd tell him to fuck off, especially if he's been blanking you etc.

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What about this girl you're "bessoted" with? Why aren't you's together? Or are you..?

 

We may aswell cover all bases while you're in the spotlight!

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Fuck him.

 

Don't knock it till you've tried it, etc?

 

As much as that was a play on things, I do mean it in another context.  To fuck with him, you'll get more friends and you'll develop stronger bonds with people that understand you better and the things you do.  Be careful though, it could be his woman stirring shit, it's not unheard of, especially at that age.

 

Let him come to you, if anything.  Don't pursue him, it's a bizarre situation.  He could be just being a cunt about you in front of his missus, it could be anything, but personally, I'd tell him to fuck off, especially if he's been blanking you etc.

 

Fucking give it a rest.

 

:lol: Cheers, Bluf.

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What about this girl you're "bessoted" with? Why aren't you's together? Or are you..?

 

We may aswell cover all bases while you're in the spotlight!

 

Eesh, i'm not going into that. Only then will you find out how mentally churned Yorkie-Geordie is.  :razz:

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Mate just go up to him and say

 

"What the fuck? your lass told me you have been ignoring me because you thought i was in love with you you absolute fucking cretin, im not gay and i am quite offended that you thought i fancied you, get over yourself you sad cunt"

 

Then head butt him

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Mate just go up to him and say

 

"What the fuck? your lass told me you have been ignoring me because you thought i was in love with you you absolute fucking cretin, im not gay and i am quite offended that you thought i fancied you, get over yourself you sad cunt"

 

Then kiss him

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You'll find when you get older your childhood mates and you grow apart and you become best friends with others, quite sad in many ways because I've "lost" lots of real good mates this way myself as I'm sure we all have, especially a mate who I grew up with from the age of 3 right through to adulthood. Never met up in years now though after he settled down, I see him passing now and again and we have a chat, but there is nothing there, we're two totally different people and could never be best friends again, or even friends. Just two people who once knew each other and can say "hi" and "hows tricks" whenever we do pass, before the "take care then". Dunno why this happens, life's strange way of working out I guess.

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You'll find when you get older your childhood mates and you grow apart and you become best friends with others, quite sad in many ways because I've "lost" lots of real good mates this way myself as I'm sure we all have, especially a mate who I grew up with from the age of 3 right through to adulthood. Never met up in years now though after he settled down, I see him passing now and again and we have a chat, but there is nothing there, we're two totally different people and could never be best friends again, or even friends. Just two people who once knew each other and can say "hi" and "hows tricks" whenever we do pass, before the "take care then". Dunno why this happens, life's strange way of working out I guess.

 

Sounds to me like this mate of yours remember what "the bad thing" was and subsequently wants nowt to do with you. :lol:

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All i can say is "I don't trust the lass"

 

The answer to all yours and his problems lies within that cunt.

I was thinking similar. Wouldn't be surprised if this was down to her. You should give her one just to prove them both wrong. Not up the Gary Glitter though.

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You'll find when you get older your childhood mates and you grow apart and you become best friends with others, quite sad in many ways because I've "lost" lots of real good mates this way myself as I'm sure we all have, especially a mate who I grew up with from the age of 3 right through to adulthood. Never met up in years now though after he settled down, I see him passing now and again and we have a chat, but there is nothing there, we're two totally different people and could never be best friends again, or even friends. Just two people who once knew each other and can say "hi" and "hows tricks" whenever we do pass, before the "take care then". Dunno why this happens, life's strange way of working out I guess.

 

Sounds to me like this mate of yours remember what "the bad thing" was and subsequently wants nowt to do with you. :lol:

 

:lol:

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All i can say is "I don't trust the lass"

 

The answer to all yours and his problems lies within that cunt.

I was thinking similar. Wouldn't be surprised if this was down to her. You should give her one just to prove them both wrong. Not up the Gary Glitter though.

 

:lol:

 

Aye. Am guessing the OP is at the 16-18 year old stage, where girls play games and really try and drive wedges inbetween lads and their friends. Sounds like she has done a good job here.

 

But there is absolutely fuk all you can do until the lad decides on his own he's had enough. You try and get back in and she'll just say your trying to drive a wedge between them, and end of the day, pussy is the winner everytime, so don't even think of going there.

 

I'd speak to him and say you think she's a little bit clingy and jealous, but thats cool if he's happy. When he's not happy the lads will always be waiting for him when he serves his time.

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