It was both, plain stupid, Remy should know better than that. Ref is obviously a prick for handling it all wrong, but by giving the ref a chance with such stupidity. He possibly deserved it because of that.
It was all handbags leading to the head-to-head, which made it more ridiculously stupid on Remy's part. I had seen more aggressive shoving than that joke of a moment, and I didn't know whether to laugh or to cry.