So you agree with Gav? disgraceful imho
I don't agree, but I would rather people were honest about their beliefs.
Aye, if you've got to forget/forego bits of the religion just to make it acceptable to you, then don't follow that religion.
This is what I question about gay marriage. If a religion forbids you to be who you are, then why would you want to enter it through marriage? Other than for boring tax reasons etc. Please note - I'm not against gay marriage at all