When you hear of someone else's traumatic childhood experiences has it ever crossed your mind to blame the child? We never even entertain the idea that the child is to blame or in some way tarnished, when it is a child other than ourself who is the victim. Yet it is this silent shame we feel ourselves which paedophile's rely on to keep doing what they callously do. It not only takes huge courage to disclose, it shows how to take the power away from in the greater scheme of things small episodes of our lives, normalises this for others and ultimately takes the power away from would be abusers. You have my absolute respect, Vlad. Good on ye man.