That's a cracking post and I'm very much in the 'never going to warm to him' camp.
You live by the sword, you die by the sword so getting into bed with Ashley and Co. means all bets are off in terms of cutting him slack around a small squad, players being sold over his head etc etc.
He knew what he was getting when he signed on the dotted line one year ago and for me he'll always get less patience than a random appointment simply because he knew exactly what he was in for and has stated many times that he's happy to work within the regime and that closeness to the regime will always count against him when the shit hits the fans in the eyes of quite a few fans I would think.
Before everyone (Ian W) starts with the 'rather have an Ashley man than anyone else, better for the club etc etc', my view is that regardless of Manager the overall strategy would be the same, so the only advantage of Pardew is his ability to calm things through his media savvy - which, in my mind, is Dekka's job anyway.