Thinking about this still shocks me to the core like no other death of any person I've never met has. It still doesn't make any sense to us as the outsiders and it seems like the family feel the same. It must have been, and probably still is, absolutely horrific for them.
To call the act selfish is to completely disregard the state of mind someone in that position must be in to take their own life. People need to talk to each other more, man.