I'd expect my life to be turned upside down if we won a trophy. I got to 40 (I'm plenty older now) and reluctantly accepted that I'd never see us win anything. Fatalistic perhaps.
I'm now of the mind we'll win something before I croak. And in doing so, I'll start to believe in ghosts, life on Mars, Nessie, Bigfoot and drinking mead with centaurs in the Bigg Market