If we were in the bottom 3 I have no doubt you would still take a positive from it, that just seems to be the way you are and that's not a fault but it doesn't mean anybody who has a different opinion is wrong.
We were as frustrating as hell today and we tried the same thing which failed time after time, we scored a really well taken freekick but it wasn't until Cisse scored in the 92nd minute that we realised that hitting high balls into the box wasn't working and that had little to do with how well Stoke were organised. It was because they had a keeper who was taking everything that came his way and that was abvious from early in the 1st half. Stoke held a good line and we played a game that suited them for far too long.
You name 3 missing players, I doubt 2 of them would have made the slightest difference to our game or the result.