r0cafella Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 Just now, AyeDubbleYoo said: I knew he must have big family problems because of not having the name on the shirt, but yeah, could never have guessed there was as much trauma as that. Think he’s from a rough area no? Coming from such an area I’m not surprised at all. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCK Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 1 hour ago, r0cafella said: Think he’s from a rough area no? Coming from such an area I’m not surprised at all. Bit of a strange thing to write publically. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
tgarve Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 4 minutes ago, OCK said: Bit of a strange thing to write publically. Not really? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCK Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 Sexual abuse, broken families and drugs exclusive to "rough areas" like? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
r0cafella Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 4 minutes ago, OCK said: Sexual abuse, broken families and drugs exclusive to "rough areas" like? That’s not what I said at all mind. The point he was making related to trauma in general which are prevalent and manifest themselves in any number of way’s particularly in left behind communities. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
OCK Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 Well you sound very confident and informed about that. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeyt Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 I haven't watched it yet but it's an incredibly brave thing to do and hopefully stops the "he's got a load of money how can he have mental health problems" stigma. Probably guilty of it in the past but have to remember it's just a game of football and they are human beings all of which have different upbringings and trauma which we've got no idea about Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Geordie Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 Well done for Dele to speak out. Had a helluva start in life, so no wonder it's affected him in adulthood. I hope he is now getting the help he needs. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rafalove Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 5 hours ago, AyeDubbleYoo said: We should assume that this is case whenever someone has a career dip like he has had. It's much more likely that they're suffering in some way than they're just lazy. This. 100 percent. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dancing Brave Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 Birmingham City taken over by Shelby Not sure if it's Tommy or Arthur in charge, https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/66192434 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Disco Posted July 13, 2023 Share Posted July 13, 2023 11 hours ago, joeyt said: I haven't watched it yet but it's an incredibly brave thing to do and hopefully stops the "he's got a load of money how can he have mental health problems" stigma. Probably guilty of it in the past but have to remember it's just a game of football and they are human beings all of which have different upbringings and trauma which we've got no idea about As near usual, he says he got word the press caught wind he’d been in rehab and had started to pressure (blackmail) because that’s a normal way to behave. Saying that and as he said if he can even help one other person by speaking he’s done a good thing. Speaks really, really well. Neville a really underrated interviewer too. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffee_Johnny Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 19 hours ago, OCK said: Well you sound very confident and informed about that. It’s hardly controversial. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Butcher Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 We were sat right next to this lot last night. John Ruddy is fucking massive. They were very friendly and looked to enjoy themselves. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaztoon Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 One hell of a player in there.. if he can turn it around with help.. who better than Eddie howe and the new culture at newcastle. Lad deserves a helping hand. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
gbandit Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Huge respect or Dele for facing all that trauma and then being able to talk about it. The courage to even seek help is inspiring when your past is littered with so many examples of abuse and mistreatment Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
huss9 Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Dele comes across as very articulate and intelligent. seems like he got into therapy/rehab just in time. good on him. mental health services in this country are a joke. just worry for people like Dele but who dont have the money to pay for it themselves. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheBrownBottle Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 2 hours ago, Gaztoon said: One hell of a player in there.. if he can turn it around with help.. who better than Eddie howe and the new culture at newcastle. Lad deserves a helping hand. He’s a brave lad and deserves much credit for that interview. I wouldn’t want NUFC going out and signing him, though. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shays Given Tim Flowers Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Mendy beats the case. Hell of a number of charges. When you stop to look at it. Wow. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt1892 Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Sign him up. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Prophet Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Was this the follow-up trial for the two counts they had to rehear? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shays Given Tim Flowers Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Yeah. Originally 8 Charges of Rape, 1 Attempt, 7 complainants. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt1892 Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Ex-Manchester City footballer Benjamin Mendy has been cleared of raping a woman and attempting to rape another. The 28-year-old was accused of attacking a 24-year-old woman at his £4m mansion in Mottram St Andrew, Cheshire in October 2020. Mr Mendy was also accused of the attempted rape of another woman, aged 29, who said he had also molested her at his home two years before. It comes after he was cleared of six rapes at an earlier trial in January. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-manchester-66201526 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Doubt he will play in England again Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Prophet Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Following a fair bit of the original trial. Essentially the defence created reasonable doubt by asserting all of the alleged victims knew each other and continued to attend parties around his gaff. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Prophet Posted July 14, 2023 Share Posted July 14, 2023 Just now, James said: Doubt he will play in England again Has a move to Saudi written all over it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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